Home Away from Home: Relocating Your Parents

As you’ve watched your parents get older, perhaps you have struggled with situations such as these:

  • You’ve travelled to visit your mother for the holidays, and found her refrigerator nearly empty, her bills unpaid and her house in disarray.
  • A neighbor has called you to report that your father was wandering in the street, unable to find the home he’s lived in for 30 years.
  • Your mother has neglected to take her diabetes medications, severely compromising her health.
  • Your very independent father fell and broke his hip, making it impossible to navigate the stairs in his home.

If there is a decline in cognitive abilities as a result of Alzheimer’s disease or a related dementia, or a shift in a medical condition that requires increased care, there is clear cause to be concerned about your parent’s welfare. It may be time to consider a move to a safer environment.

But where should he or she live? Often your first inclination is to move Mom or Dad into your home—but this major life change deserves thoughtful examination, and there are many alternatives to explore. This Fact Sheet offers advice and summarizes the issues to consider before making the important and challenging decisions regarding relocating your parent.

To see the Fact Sheet, click on the following link:  https://www.caregiver.org/home-away-home-relocating-your-parents

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